A 24-year-old woman, Nessa Jay whose condition could be termed as ‘hypersexual’, claims to have slept with 300 people and is so addicted to carnal pleasure that she spends up to five hours a day having sex or pleasuring herself.
Jay finds her addiction to sex hard to deal with and she is even having therapy to try to curb it.
She says: ’I get sweaty palms, I feel angry and I need to satisfy myself if I don’t get at least five orgasms a day through sex.’
Daily Mail reports:
Nessa, who describes herself on Twitter as a ‘philosopher in sex toys’ and ‘boinkologist’, reached her sexual peak when she was 19 and admitted that she used to have sex with ‘anyone I could’.
Nessa says she even used to meet sexual partners in the supermarkets. ‘First I chat to them a bit to make sure they’re not dangerous or odd but once I know they are OK we go home together,’ she said.
She first discovered her thirst for sex after losing her virginity at the age of 16 but now channels much of her sexual energy in to her work as a sex toy reviewer.
She has tested 2,000 toys, and says the nature of her job helps her to deal with her cravings.
Nessa also says she’s enjoyed sex with women and has had threesomes.
However, while she has been polyamorous in the past, she has one partner at the moment.
Her sexual appetite has in the past wreaked havoc with her friendships and many of her female friends have cut ties with her because they’re worried their boyfriends may be attracted to her.
However, speaking to Nick Conrad on BBC Radio Norfolk yesterday, she said: ‘It’s not all about sex, sometimes I won’t have sex with them for months. We go out and have dinner, go to the cinema.
‘I have slept with about thirty men in a month before but for years I had regular partners and that was it.
Sexual appetite: Nessa claims to have slept with 300 people in the eight years since she lost her virginity
Problematic: Nessa finds her addiction to sex hard to deal with and she is even having therapy to try and curb it
Variety is the spice of life: Nessa says she enjoys sex with men and women and has also indulged in threesomes
Business brain: Nessa now reviews sex toys to satisfy her sexual cravings
‘There is an emotional side, I believe strongly that people should have some form of emotional connection to enjoy sex. It is often very intimate, I like physical connections and I have quite high standards actually.’
She has even forged a ‘network’ of sexual partners but doesn’t want her nymphomania to define her and hopes people will view people with hypersexuality as ‘normal’.
‘I live an average life which most people my age would live. I see friends, I write, I have hobbies; it’s pretty normal and pretty boring at times actually!
‘I do not believe in sex addiction or nymphomania. My sex drive may be higher than some but it’s healthy because I’m positive about it and I’m also a trained sex educator so I always make sure I have incredibly safe sex and get tested regularly.
‘I’m perfectly healthy. I can’t change who I am or how I act and I wouldn’t want to,’ she added.
Tweet tweet: Nessa describes herself on Twitter as a ‘philosopher in sex toys
Paranoia: Her sexual appetite has wreaked havoc with her friendships and many of her female friends have cut ties with her because they’re so paranoid their boyfriends may be attracted to her